Melvin Dunphy

Obituary of Melvin Lewis Dunphy

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Deacon Melvin L. Dunphy (Mel) passed away unexpectedly at his residence at Watermark at Trinity, Florida, on Tuesday, September 6, 2022. He was age 91, although some may not have guessed. He remained active in his ministry as Permanent Deacon at St. Thomas Aquinas Church in New Port Richey, where he assisted at Mass, was a gifted and entertaining homilist, conducted services at funeral homes, baptized children, served as a certified bereavement counselor, conducted bereavement seminars, and led a prayer group. He was at work in the Lord’s Garden until the very end Mel enjoyed a happy, active, and meaningful life. Mel was a devoted husband and father, and a beloved grandfather. Mel married his childhood sweetheart, the late Shirley Ann Boucher, and enjoyed more than 50 years of happy marriage with her. Together they had eight children, Michael, Suzanne, Karen, Patrick, Lucille, Stephen, Donna, and Christopher. Mel was born in Duxbury, Vermont, to Daniel and Madeline (Robtoy) Dunphy, who passed their Catholic devotion along to their firstborn son. He was born and raised in Vermont. Mel graduated from Waterbury High School in Vermont. For some time during high school, Mel envisioned that he would one day own the grocery store he worked in part-time during school, until one day two of his teachers grabbed him in the hallway and convinced him to apply for entrance into Boston University. As is said, the rest is history. Mel left his studies at Boston University to join the United States Navy during the Korean War and served for four years. While at sea he served on the light aircraft carrier, USS Saipan, and on land stationed at the Naval Station Norfolk, in Virginia, where his first two children were born. He later served for seven years as a medical officer in the United States Army Reserves. After his marriage and subsequent discharge from the Navy, Mel resumed his studies at the University of Vermont, receiving a B.S. degree. He was the first person in his family to graduate from college. While teaching in the Winchendon Public Schools, he was awarded a National Education Grant to attend Stetson University, where he received an M.S. degree. Mel earned his living as a mathematics teacher and administrator. He began his career in education as an elementary school principal in Vermont, taught secondary school and college mathematics in Massachusetts, and served as a secondary school principal in Massachusetts and later in Vermont. He served in the public schools of Chelsea, Vermont, Winchendon, Harvard and Gardner, Massachusetts, and Bradford, Vermont. He was also a boy’s high school varsity basketball coach and class advisor. For many years Mel was a certified driving instructor and taught, or, as he might say, attempted to teach, most of his children to drive. Mel studied for the permanent diaconate in the Diocese of Worcester, Massachusetts, and was ordained in 1979 by Bishop Harrington. His first assignment was at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Winchendon, Massachusetts, where Father Pelletier was his first pastor. He then served seven years in the Diocese of Burlington, Vermont, and began serving at St. Thomas Aquinas in 1994 up until his death. During his time of service, he was also assigned at Our Lady of Perpetual Help in Bradford, Vermont. Deacon Mel baptized many of his grandchildren. He was a long time member of the Knights of Columbus. Mel was preceded in death by his parents, Daniel and Madeline, wife, Shirley, son, Michael, daughter, Suzanne Kruger, and daughter, Donna Collins. He was also preceded in death by sons-in-law, Bill Stowell and Bob Collins; as well as he and Shirley’s favorite companions, Shirley’s brother Paul and his wife, Marge, as well as by Shirley’s parents, Archie and Florence Boucher, and Shirley’s siblings June, Don, and Jack. Mel is survived by his brother, Earle and his wife Christina, their children, Peter, Beth, Mike and Cathy, and Mel’s sister, Ann Butler and her companion Clifford, and her daughter Sarah. Mel is also survived by his son-in-law, Danny Kruger, grandchildren Mike, Tim and Jenny; his daughter, Karen Antonellis, her husband, Nunzy, and grandchildren, Annie, Wellie and Carmela; his son, Patrick, his wife, Marylee, and grandchildren, Paul, Maria and Daniel; his daughter Lucy, her companion Ralph; and grandchildren, Amy, Matt and Katie; his son, Stephen, his wife Marlene, and granddaughter, Sara; Donna’s daughters, Moriah and Michaela; and his son Christopher, daughter-in-law Marcela, and granddaughters, Shannon and Kyrie. Mel is also survived by Shirley’s nephew, Paul Boucher, and his wife, Denise. Mel is survived by many great-grandchildren. He had many fond memories of loved ones in Vermont, Virginia, Massachusetts, and Florida. Mel was the author of several published works, including The Gift (1980), and Two Flesh One Spirit, 10 Kids 50 Roses (2006). He formerly owned and operated the Toy Town Chapel Publishing LLC. Mel was an amateur actor and performer at times throughout his life, as a student, teacher, and minister, and will be fondly remembered by his family for his one man show, How Ladies Walk. He also loved to dance. In the most recent years of his life, Deacon Mel’s heart was always with the priests, staff, and parishioners at St. Thomas Aquinas. He loved them dearly and wanted most of all to continue his ministry there if possible. Mel was so grateful to Pastor, Fr. Eric Peters, for making that happen. Mel fondly spoke so often of so many people at St. Thomas Aquinas and particularly enjoyed the company of the Manhattan Club. Mel’s family would also like to express many thanks, on his behalf, to all of Mel’s wonderful medical care providers, including the Moffitt Cancer Center, Tampa, and in particular, Susan Woodward, APRN and the Internal Medicine office of Navnit Patel, MD, New Port Richey. Funeral services will be held Wednesday, September 14 at St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic Church, New Port, Richey. Viewing will be from 9:00-11:00am (in the church). Funeral Mass will be held at 11:00am. Funerary services are being provided by Morgan Funeral Home & Cremation Service, New Port Richey, Florida. Interment will be at a later date with his wife and son, Michael, in Calvary Cemetery, Winchendon, Massachusetts. If so inclined, it is suggested that memorial contributions be made to St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic Church, 8320 Old County Rd. 54, New Port Richey, FL 34653.
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Wednesday
14
September

Viewing and Visitation

9:00 am - 11:00 am
Wednesday, September 14, 2022
St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic church
8320 Old County Rd 54
New Port Richey, Florida, United States
727-372-8600
Wednesday
14
September

Funeral Mass

11:00 am - 12:00 pm
Wednesday, September 14, 2022
St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic church
8320 Old County Rd 54
New Port Richey, Florida, United States
727-372-8600
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